Austin Butler wild boy behavior dooms relationship with Kaia Gerber, according to exclusive comments from those close to the couple, shedding light on the reasons behind their recent split. The relationship, which ended earlier this year, reportedly dissolved amidst rising tensions and fundamental differences in priorities.
Deterioration Behind the Scenes
Austin Butler and Kaia Gerber’s breakup did not occur without warning. According to an insider who spoke to Life & Style, the end of their romance was clear long before it became public. As described by a source,
“Kaia and Austin’s relationship ending was a slow motion car wreck that everybody saw coming a mile away,”
—source, Life & Style. The underlying issues stemmed from what was characterized as a stark contrast in their personalities and lifestyles, with Butler’s behavior frequently clashing with Gerber’s approach to life. The same source emphasized,
“Absolutely, the knee jerk reaction is that Austin’s, cocky wild boy behavior was going to eventually doom them, because Kaia is such a polite, civilized and humble girl by comparison.”
—source, Life & Style.
After drawing attention as a couple in December 2021 following a yoga session outing, Butler and Gerber publicly revealed their relationship with a red carpet appearance in March 2022. Despite their fame, they mostly chose to keep their personal lives confidential, only occasionally displaying affection at major events. The quiet handling of their relationship contrast sharply with the eventual, public nature of their breakup.
Career Ambitions Complicate Romance
Reports suggested hopes among fans that Butler and Gerber’s relationship would become more serious after they reportedly purchased a home together in May 2023. At that time, rumors of an engagement spread widely, with celebrity gossip accounts fueling speculation that the couple wanted to keep things private. One such Instagram account claimed,
“proposed back in April, but [he and Kaia] want to keep it low-key.”
—Deux Moi, Instagram. This optimism among observers was further captured in social media posts, as all eyes turned to the couple’s next possible steps.
Despite the appearance of stability, their relationship reached a breaking point in January, when fans learned of their separation. Although some outlets suggested it was an amicable split, those close to Gerber noted that she felt frustration toward Butler’s behavior. As the insider revealed,
“nobody around her was mistaking him for some innocent angel.”
—source, Life & Style. This insight suggests mounting dissatisfaction on Gerber’s part and hints at unchangeable patterns that became irreconcilable.
Unchanging Patterns Lead to Heartbreak
The dynamics of the relationship were marked by attempts to address Butler’s actions, but deep-seated habits reportedly persisted.
“He is who he is and as much as Kaia tried to change him, the only way he stops drinking and gives up his childish antics is if he makes that decision himself,”
—insider, Life & Style. The same source also noted,
“And in Austin’s defense, he has gotten very famous very quickly and executives suck up to him and young women go nuts for him when they see him in person.”
—insider, Life & Style. These factors contributed to the ongoing tension, as widespread fame transformed Butler’s lifestyle and social environment, while Gerber sought a more grounded partnership.
Friends See a Recurrent Issue
Friends of both Butler and Gerber noticed what one described as a “growing sense” that similar problems had undermined the actor’s previous long-term relationship with Vanessa Hudgens. The source stated,
“blew it with this one, and it’s starting to become a pattern.”
—source, Life & Style. Reflecting further, another comment summarized Butler’s challenges with sustaining adult relationships:
“Vanessa Hudgens is a wonderful, amazingly cool and talented person and Austin just stood by and let that relationship totally implode over basically the same issues,”
—source, Life & Style. The insider continued,
“He doesn’t have any patience for a grown-up, serious relationship at this point in his life.”
—source, Life & Style.
Butler’s romantic history further underscores this viewpoint. Before his time with Gerber, his nearly nine-year relationship with Disney alum Vanessa Hudgens also came to an end over similar disagreements. After their breakup in January 2020, Hudgens found new happiness, marrying Cole Tucker just a year later.
Persistent Tension Signals Future Struggles
The story of Austin Butler and Kaia Gerber’s failed romance resonates with many of their fans and friends, particularly due to recurring patterns in Butler’s approach to relationships. Despite initial hope and significant milestones, such as moving in together, unresolved issues brought the couple’s romance to a close. As Butler continues to navigate fame and his evolving career, questions remain about whether he will change his ways in pursuit of a lasting partnership, or if similar difficulties will resurface in the future.
