Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn Play Matchmaker: Helping Kevin Costner Find Love in Aspen

Kurt Russell helps Kevin Costner find love in Aspen, as the Hollywood couple uses their social connections in Colorado’s exclusive Aspen community to introduce the Yellowstone star to new romantic possibilities, sources say. The actors, friends for more than two decades, are reportedly eager to help Costner find happiness after his recent divorce, leveraging their friendship and Aspen’s high society to play matchmaker.

Russell and Hawn’s Longstanding Bond with Costner

Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn have cultivated a close relationship with Kevin Costner over the last twenty-plus years, a connection that grew stronger after their competitive days in the 1990s faded. While they once vied for high-profile Hollywood roles, a shift toward collaboration has led to enduring mutual respect. Their history includes moments when they competed for parts, notably in the 2012 film Django Unchained, where Costner was initially set to be cast, before Russell eventually stepped into the role—though it later went to Walton Goggins.

“Kurt and Goldie have been loyal friends of Kevin’s for more than twenty years. It wasn’t always that way: in the ’90s, Kevin and Kurt were fierce competitors, but at some point, at the end of that decade, Kurt and Kevin got on the same page, started talking about working together, and the friendship has persisted to this day,”

the source explains. —Insider

“Kurt and Goldie are absolutely Kevin loyalists and they respect the hell out of each other, even though Kurt and Kevin have continued to jostle for roles here and there,”

the insider says, noting their ongoing professional competition.

Matchmaking Efforts in Aspen’s Social Circles

Their efforts extend beyond friendship, as Russell and Hawn, both notable figures in the Aspen community and neighbors to Costner, aim to introduce him to potential romantic interests from their network of influential friends. Both actors want to see Costner thrive in his personal life, especially following a challenging phase that included his 2023 split from Christine Baumgartner and subsequent finalization of their divorce in early 2024.

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“Nothing would make Kurt and Goldie happier than to set Kevin up with one of their Aspen friends, but the problem is that Kevin is a massive workaholic and perfectionist who kind of hates socializing and partying just for the sake of it,”

the source shares about the Yellowstone alum. —Insider

Despite these intentions, Costner’s inclination toward work and his discomfort with casual socializing may pose a challenge for matchmakers. Russell and Hawn remain optimistic that their friendship and community ties will help pave the way for a meaningful relationship.

“Kurt and Goldie are like everybody in Kevin’s life – they want him to find love and if they can help out in that department, they’re gonna try!”

the insider adds. —Insider

Neighbors and Family Connections in Aspen

In addition to their personal friendship, the connection among the three stars is reinforced by their status as Aspen neighbors. Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell own homes near Costner’s Dunbar Ranch, a vast 160-acre estate that boasts three residences, situated just outside of downtown Aspen. Hawn’s son, Oliver Hudson, once described their property as a “time capsule,” referencing the family’s reluctance to update the residence. Hudson shared these details during a televised appearance, reflecting on childhood memories in the Aspen house.

“It’s a bit of a time capsule. Those curtains that you see are like 30 years old, you know what I mean? Mom refuses to update, which kind of is great,”

the actor revealed. —Oliver Hudson

“Mom built this house first and then my stepdad Kurt built the other house. So we lived here in 1985 for two years.”

—Oliver Hudson

Kevin Costner’s Aspen Estate and Family Life

Kevin Costner’s Dunbar Ranch, purchased in 2000, is celebrated for its scenic beauty and luxury, providing three homes on a sprawling property with lakes and a river. Costner previously married Christine Baumgartner on the ranch and raised their three children—Cayden, Hayes, and Grace—there during various periods.

“It’s just beautiful, with three lakes and a river running through it,”

Kevin exclusively told Closer in November 2020 about his Aspen ranch. —Kevin Costner

“My whole family spends some of our best times there.”

—Kevin Costner

Following his separation, Costner offered the property as an upscale rental, promoting it as

“the ultimate luxury retreat only minutes from downtown Aspen, Colorado.”

The listing also described it as

“one of the most rare estate rental homes on the market today,”

and emphasized that

“three exquisite residences offer stunning and comfortable spaces for you and your family to experience the true Colorado lifestyle, available individually or together.”

These words aimed at attracting high-end clientele seeking comfort and authenticity in Aspen.

Addressing Rumors and Relationship Status

Since his divorce, Costner has faced speculation about his relationship with singer Jewel, which he has categorically denied. They were rumored to have grown close after his split, but Costner insists their bond remains platonic and values the friendship, unwilling for rumors to impact it.

“Jewel and I are friends. We’ve never gone out ever,”

Kevin told Howard Stern in June 2024. —Kevin Costner

“She’s special, and I don’t want these rumors to ruin our friendship because that’s what we have. She’s special to me.”

—Kevin Costner

“She’s beautiful and smart enough for all those things. It just has never happened for us,”

he continued while explaining how they never moved beyond the friend zone. —Kevin Costner

“She’s everything you might think, but it just hasn’t happened.”

—Kevin Costner

Kevin added,

“We don’t have a romance and we’ve not dated.”

—Kevin Costner

Looking Ahead: Will Costner Find Love in Aspen?

Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn’s determination to support Kevin Costner resonates with their inner circle and the broader Aspen community. Their mix of loyalty, shared history, and active involvement highlights a personal side of Hollywood icons beyond the screen. As Costner navigates post-divorce life in Colorado’s elite mountain town, the influence of friends and the potential for new connections create an atmosphere of hope, even as work commitments and a preference for solitude may delay the outcome. Whether their matchmaking will succeed remains to be seen, but the efforts reflect enduring friendship and the complexities that come with searching for happiness later in life.