Amid rumors of her split from Coldplay’s Chris Martin after an eight-year relationship, Dakota Johnson has openly discussed the challenges of dating in today’s world. Speaking at the Karlovy Vary Film Festival while promoting her latest film, Materialists, the 35-year-old actress expressed a candid view on romance, bluntly stating that “dating sucks.”
How Research for New Film Influenced Johnson’s View on Relationships
Johnson’s perspective on dating was shaped by her role in Materialists, where she plays Lucy. The film’s director, Celine Song, drew from her own background as a professional matchmaker to inspire the storyline. Johnson revealed that through conversations with Song, she learned about the complexities of pairing people, describing the process as “incredible research.”
Johnson noted,
“She (Celine Song) felt people were more honest with her than they would be with their friends or family, or even their therapist.”
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She also highlighted that the matchmaking experience revealed a focus on practical, material concerns over the emotional and soulful elements usually associated with romance. Johnson stated,
“found it so interesting that it was more about material aspects of living than it was about emotional, visceral, soulful aspects.”
Dakota Johnson Reflects on the Emotional Impact of Finding Love
The actress summarized her main takeaway from the film’s research with a blunt admission:
“And I also learned that dating sucks.”
She admitted that while she herself has limited personal experience, friends’ accounts have shown her how challenging finding the right partner can be.
“I don’t have personal experience, but I know from friends of mine that trying to find your person is just difficult. It’s both beautiful and scary and I think it makes every human question their worth, which is sad.”
Perspectives on Dating Apps and Matchmaking Services
Johnson also commented on the various modern approaches to dating, from apps to matchmaking professionals, expressing a balanced view. She said,

“Some dating apps are incredible, and I know people that have gotten married and are so in love from them, and people who have been set up by friends or matchmakers.”
The actress concluded with a sentiment embracing diverse experiences in love, adding,
“There’s no right or wrong answer to love.”
Recent Relationship Status with Chris Martin
Reports indicate that Dakota Johnson and Chris Martin ended their relationship in 2025, following years of on-again, off-again involvement. According to a source close to the couple, “feels final this time.” The two were last seen publicly together on May 16 in Malibu, where paparazzi captured their final outing.
What This Means for Johnson’s Public and Personal Life
Dakota Johnson’s openness about the difficulties in dating adds depth to her public image during a transitional period in her private life. Her reflections, inspired by her film project and conversations with those close to her, highlight the vulnerability many face navigating love today. As her career continues to evolve alongside changes in her personal relationships, audiences may find renewed connection in her candidness about romance’s ups and downs.
Our Reader’s Queries
Q. Is Dakota Johnson a Nepo baby?
A. Dakota Johnson, whose parents are famous, reached out to them for money when acting became challenging.
