Jeremy Renner, known for his roles in Marvel films, shared insights on his coparenting dynamic with ex-wife Sonni Pacheco, emphasizing that they maintain a good relationship for the sake of their daughter. Speaking to The Guardian on July 12, Renner highlighted the ease with which they navigate parenting together, reflecting a cooperative approach despite their past.
Renner said,
“Her mom and I get along very well, and we’re in each other’s lives,”
—Jeremy Renner, actor
Background of Renner and Pacheco’s Marriage and Divorce
The couple married secretly in January 2014 and welcomed daughter Ava before separating in December 2015. Pacheco filed for divorce less than a year after their wedding, requesting joint legal custody and sole physical custody of Ava while alleging Renner had taken some personal documents. Renner did not publicly address these claims, but a source indicated Pacheco sought independence at that time.
The divorce was finalized by the end of 2015, with both parents sharing custody. Renner was mandated to pay $13,000 per month in child support. Despite legal disputes, Renner later noted the custody arrangements were straightforward.
He stated,
“That’s just lawyers talking. That’s lawyers arguing. The custody was easy. … It’s no one’s business.”
—Jeremy Renner, actor
Current Family Life and Personal Focus After Past Challenges
Renner praised the peaceful relationship with Pacheco, acknowledging her new family with hockey player Nate Thompson, who welcomed their daughter Wylder in March 2023. Meanwhile, Renner remains single and prioritizes his daughter and philanthropic work.
Explaining his focus, Renner said,
“I’m pretty focused on my daughter and the foundation for the kids,”
referring to his nonprofit organization, RennerVation, which supports children in and out of foster care. He added,
“That’s where the accident really shifted my focus. I can still go to work, but my primary focus is to give back and help in any way I can.”
—Jeremy Renner, actor
Impact of Near-Fatal Accident on Relationship and Priorities
In January 2023, Renner survived a severe accident involving a snowplow that left him with more than 30 broken bones. This incident significantly deepened his relationship with his daughter Ava and redefined his role as a father.
Reflecting on this change, Renner stated,
“The accident really propelled us into a very adult relationship,”
and described his evolving role as akin to a guardian or protector, saying,
“It’s been wonderful, and now I feel like I’m just a manager or a bouncer. I feel like my roles are changing … [I’m wearing] different hats now. Now, I feel like I just have to be around and make sure she doesn’t do bad stuff.”
—Jeremy Renner, actor
Finding Fulfillment Through Parenting and Philanthropy
Beyond his career, Renner finds deep satisfaction in nurturing his daughter and working through his foundation. He spoke about the joy of supporting children in need and the fulfillment it brings, ranking it alongside the importance of raising his own child.
He shared,
“That’s way more fulfilling than anything else I’ve done, outside of bringing up my own child. Being able to put a smile on these kids’ faces and share that joy with them and share the growth, I can’t think of anything more rewarding.”
—Jeremy Renner, actor
Looking Ahead: Renner’s Focus Remains on Family and Helping Children
Jeremy Renner’s experience with coparenting Sonni Pacheco highlights a mature and supportive partnership focused on their daughter Ava’s wellbeing. His commitment to family, combined with his dedication to his nonprofit efforts following his traumatic accident, suggests a continued emphasis on personal growth and community support.
As Renner navigates life as a single father and advocate for children, his perspective on parenting and giving back appears to shape both his private and public endeavors moving forward.
