Tom Holland and Zendaya, who star as love interests in the recent Spider-Man films, sparked renewed romance talk after a rare coffee outing in Scotland where they are currently filming Christopher Nolan’s The Odyssey. This marked their first public appearance together since Tom surprised Zendaya on the Euphoria set earlier this year in April.
Their relaxed coffee date saw Zendaya wearing a casual cardigan with a white tank and black pants, while Tom kept it simple in a gray T-shirt, jeans, and a green hat. Despite their high-profile careers, the couple carefully guards their relationship’s privacy, with the public only learning about their engagement when Zendaya showcased her ring at the 2025 Golden Globes.
Private Engagement Details Unveiled by Family
Although Zendaya responded to questions about her engagement ring with a subtle smile and a shrug, Tom Holland’s father, Dominic Holland, shared some intimate details later. Dominic revealed that Tom had formally asked for permission from Zendaya’s father, Kazembe Ajamu Coleman, before proposing.
In a Patreon post, Dominic wrote,
He had spoken with her father and gained permission to propose to his daughter. Tom had everything planned out… When, where, how, what to say, what to wear…
—Dominic Holland, Father of Tom Holland

He added that both he and his wife, Nikki Holland, are delighted to witness the couple embarking on this new chapter. Dominic further reflected on the challenges famous couples face publicly, stating,
Even though show-business is a messy place for relationships and particularly so for famous couples as they crash and burn in public and are too numerous to mention, I am completely confident they will make a successful union.
—Dominic Holland, Father of Tom Holland
Tom Holland’s Perspective on Privacy and Public Exposure
Tom has been open about why he often avoids attending events with Zendaya. In a Men’s Health interview from January, he explained,
It’s not my moment, it’s her moment, and if we go together, it’s about us.
—Tom Holland, Actor
Their relationship became public knowledge in July 2021 after paparazzi caught them sharing a kiss in a car. Tom highlighted the loss of privacy fame brings, telling GQ,
One of the downsides of our fame is that privacy isn’t really in our control anymore, and a moment that you think is between two people that love each other very much is now a moment that is shared with the entire world, I’ve always been really adamant to keep my private life private, because I share so much of my life with the world anyway.
—Tom Holland, Actor
Milestones and Public Appearances Over the Years
Their shared journey has included memorable public moments spanning several years. At San Diego Comic-Con 2016, before Spider-Man: Homecoming’s release, the pair were seen sharing laughs. They made appearances together at the MTV Movie & TV Awards in May 2017 and participated in promotional events for Spider-Man: Homecoming in Spain the following month.
By June 2019, the couple attended the post–premiere party for Spider-Man: Far From Home in Hollywood. In September 2021, shortly after confirming their relationship, Tom celebrated Zendaya’s birthday publicly, writing,
My MJ, have the happiest of birthdays, Gimme a call when your up xxx
—Tom Holland, Actor
December 2021 was particularly notable as they promoted and premiered Spider-Man: No Way Home. Zendaya wore a custom Valentino gown while Tom donned a Prada suit during the Los Angeles premiere. Zendaya also praised Tom’s work following the release.
In February 2022, the couple enjoyed a stylish Valentine’s Day outing in New York City. Months later, Zendaya supported Tom’s theatrical debut of Romeo and Juliet in London, after which they were photographed holding hands.
Moments of Affection and Support in 2023 and Early 2024
Zendaya marked Tom’s 27th birthday in June 2023 by sharing a charming photo of him enjoying time by the water. Tom responded with a playful Instagram post calling it,
A gift from me to you. I thought I’d share possibly the sexiest picture ever taken of me!
—Tom Holland, Actor
In March 2024, the couple was spotted engaging in a tennis outing at the BNP Paribas Open in Indian Wells, California, with Zendaya channeling her character from Challengers, underscoring their supportive dynamic.
Their relationship has also involved close friendships, such as Zendaya’s longtime assistant Darnell Appling accompanying them, reflecting the couple’s tight-knit circle.
Recent Low-Key Moments and Business Ventures
Beyond their film projects, Tom launched a non-alcoholic beer company called Bero in October 2024, with Zendaya attending the launch party dressed in a coordinating burgundy outfit. Their down-to-earth approach to fame was further evident in November 2024 when they enjoyed a quiet date night while Zendaya was filming in Newbury, Massachusetts.
Tom shared on Instagram,
I’m heading out to a bar to have my first Bero in the wild, I’ll let you know how it goes.
—Tom Holland, Actor
Enduring Romance Amidst Fame and Filming
Their relationship, spanning over several years and evolving through public events and private moments, showcases a couple striving to balance love with high-profile careers in Hollywood. Tom Holland and Zendaya’s ability to maintain closeness, even while filming in different locations, adds a layer of dedication to their bond. Their rare public appearances, such as the coffee date in Scotland, highlight the couple’s efforts to nurture their romance amidst hectic schedules and media scrutiny.
As they continue working on major projects like The Odyssey in Scotland, fans eagerly anticipate further glimpses into their life together. The combination of their evolving public personas and steadfast commitment suggests that their romance will remain a compelling story for years to come.
Our Reader’s Queries
Q. When was Tom Holland diagnosed?
A. Holland went to Donhead, a Catholic school for boys located in Wimbledon, southwest London. At age seven, he found out he had dyslexia.
Q. Is Tom Holland Zendaya’s husband?
A. Zendaya and Tom Holland’s Wedding Plans: What We Know. During the 2025 Golden Globes, Zendaya announced her engagement to Tom Holland, showing her unique east-west diamond ring.
Q. Does Tom Holland have a disability?
A. Tom Holland, who has dyslexia, believes it’s important to give yourself enough time to complete tasks. Skilled in gymnastics and acting, his hobbies helped him start his career and ultimately secure a superhero role.
Q. Did Tom Holland propose to Zendaya?
A. Tom Holland recently proposed to Zendaya during a holiday, and it was described as “very romantic.” People close to them told TMZ how he asked her to marry him.
