Jennifer Lopez has made it clear that she is not interested in marriage anymore after her split from Ben Affleck. During a July 15 concert in Barcelona, the singer-actress responded humorously to a fan’s marriage proposal by stating she’s “done with that,” reflecting on her past experiences with marriage.
A Reflective Moment at Lopez’s Barcelona Concert
At the concert, a fan held up a sign asking, “J. Lo, marry me?” Lopez read the message aloud but shook her head and made a throat-slashing gesture before saying,
I think I’m done with that.
She added with laughter,
I’ve tried that a few times.
Background on Lopez’s Marital History and Recent Split
This moment comes about six months after Lopez finalized her divorce from Ben Affleck following nearly two years of marriage. The pair had been engaged almost 20 years earlier but ended that relationship in 2004, surprising fans when they reunited in 2021.
Jennifer Lopez’s previous marriages include unions with Ojani Noa (1997–1998) and Cris Judd (2001–2003). After her initial breakup with Affleck, she married Marc Anthony, with whom she shares twins Emme and Max. The New York native has openly expressed in past interviews her desire to remain single following her latest split.
Lopez’s Views on Being Single After Marriage
In an October interview, Lopez revealed her excitement about embracing single life. She stated,
Now I’m excited, when you say you’re just going to be on your own.
She also reflected on her resilience and independence:
Yes, I’m not looking for anybody, because everything that I’ve done over the past 25, 30 years, being in these different challenging situations, what can I f–king do when it’s just me flying on my own? What if I’m just free?
Ben Affleck’s Response to the Split
Ben Affleck has spoken respectfully about Lopez since their breakup. In a March interview with GQ, he said,
This is somebody I have a lot of respect for,
emphasizing,
I really hope that whatever you use doesn’t suggest that I have any negativity or judgment or anything regarding that.
Lopez’s Upcoming Tour and Album Performance
Jennifer Lopez continues to focus on her career, touring with her Up All Night tour through mid-March with stops planned across Europe, Asia, and Africa, including cities in Italy, Poland, and Turkey. Her latest album, This Is Me… Now, reached No. 38 on the Billboard 200 in 2024, reflecting her continued success despite personal challenges.
Our Reader’s Queries
Q. Why did Jennifer leave Ben Affleck?
A. Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez got divorced because they saw fame differently. Affleck didn’t like the intense media attention on their relationship. He felt exposed and frustrated by the constant spotlight, while Lopez was comfortable with being in the public eye.
Q. What is Ben Affleck diagnosed with?
A. Ben Affleck’s fight with alcohol addiction has been well-documented, illustrating the challenges of battling substance abuse. Even though he found fame early, he dealt with personal issues that repeatedly made him seek help in rehab.
Q. Does Ben Affleck regret leaving Jennifer?
A. Years after their divorce, the actor has openly stated that splitting up with Garner is his “biggest regret.” This shows the personal difficulties he faced. Even today, he still finds himself regretting past choices and missed chances.
Q. Why did Ben Affleck fix his teeth?
A. Affleck needed dental work when he was cast in “The Sum of All Fears.” The producers believed his character needed a more refined appearance. This wasn’t just for looks; it was about meeting the expectations of a lead actor in a big action movie.
