On September 2, Keanu Reeves marked his 61st birthday, celebrated warmly by his longtime partner Alexandra Grant. The artist posted a heartfelt tribute featuring a heart-shaped cake decorated with white frosting, candles, black and white candies, and the inscription KEANU X in red gel icing.
Grant’s Instagram message reassured fans that despite Keanu’s absence from social media, the actor truly felt the birthday love. She expressed gratitude for the many well-wishes fans sent his way following his special day.
Thank you to everyone for sending over sweet wishes for Keanu’s birthday yesterday,
Alexandra wrote.
He was well-celebrated!
—Alexandra Grant, Artist
She also revealed that Keanu viewed her post as a draft since he does not have any social media accounts. Her loving note emphasized the depth of their relationship.
To Keanu—who saw this post as a draft!—I am so grateful for your love and partnership,
she added.
Now back to painting! Xo.
—Alexandra Grant, Artist
Early Relationship and Creative Partnership
Keanu Reeves and Alexandra Grant first crossed paths in 2009 during a dinner party, beginning what would evolve into a significant personal and professional partnership. Their collaboration includes two jointly authored books: Ode to Happiness (2011) and Shadows (2016). In 2017, they co-founded X Artists’ Books, a publishing company that reflects their shared creative vision.
Private Beginnings to Public Recognition
The pair maintained a mostly private relationship for years. They attended the UNAIDS Gala at Art Basel in 2016, an appearance that went largely unnoticed by the media at the time. Alexandra’s friend Jennifer Tilly later commented on the slow public realization of their relationship.
It’s really astonishing to me how in the last five months, all of a sudden, she goes to an event with him and everybody goes insane, like, ‘It’s his new girlfriend,’ because she had gone to a lot of events with him,
Tilly revealed in 2020.
It’s just suddenly surfaced that he’s been dating her for several years.
—Jennifer Tilly, Actress
By June 2019, Keanu and Alexandra attended a Saint Laurent fashion show in Malibu, holding hands in front of photographers, though the appearance did not immediately spark widespread media attention.
First Red Carpet Appearance Sparks Media Buzz
The couple’s public recognition grew after their joint red carpet debut at the 2019 LACMA Art + Film Gala in November. Walking hand-in-hand, they drew considerable attention, which Alexandra found unexpected yet thought-provoking regarding the role of their visibility.
I think every single person I knew called me in the first week of November, and that’s fascinating,
Grant recounted to Vogue in 2020.
But the question I’ve been asking in all of this is: ‘What is the opportunity for good?’
—Alexandra Grant, Artist
Continued Public Appearances and Increasing Affection
After a three-year gap, Keanu and Alexandra reappeared publicly at the 2022 MOCA Gala in Los Angeles, focusing fully on each other. The following year in April 2023, they shared a rare on-camera kiss at the same gala, highlighting their strong bond.
The affectionate moment came shortly after Keanu provided a rare glimpse into their relationship, recounting joyful, intimate moments with Alexandra.
A couple of days ago with my honey,
he told People magazine.
We were in bed. We were connected. We were smiling and laughing and giggling. Feeling great. It was just really nice to be together.
—Keanu Reeves, Actor
Relationship Reflections and Mutual Support
Keanu Reeves has openly shared how his relationship with Alexandra Grant has brought meaningful companionship, especially throughout the COVID-19 pandemic. They spent much of that time together, strengthening their connection through simple pleasures like motorcycle rides and collaborative projects.
It’s been really wonderful to be with Alexandra,
Keanu shared with Parade magazine in 2020.
We enjoy each other’s company, whatever that may be. Once the beaches opened up, we went for a motorcycle ride, and we have a couple of projects.
—Keanu Reeves, Actor
Grant, in turn, has expressed gratitude for finding love later in life, emphasizing the importance of having an established career and confidence as they entered the relationship.
The good news about falling in love as an adult is that I had built my own career by the time that my relationship had begun,
she told People in 2023.
I feel very confident in the relationship on the red carpet. I feel confident on it alone.
—Alexandra Grant, Artist
The Enduring Partnership of Keanu Reeves and Alexandra Grant
Keanu Reeves and Alexandra Grant have cultivated a deeply private yet creative and supportive partnership that continues to draw admiration. Alexandra’s recent public birthday tribute underlines their enduring love and mutual respect. As they participate in artistic and public engagements, their relationship serves as a compelling example of a mature, balanced romantic and professional connection. Fans can look forward to more shared moments and collaborations from this unique duo.
