Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban’s marriage, which lasted 19 years, has come to an end as Kidman officially filed for divorce on September 29. The news emerged shortly after Kidman’s Vogue cover story was published on October 8, where she appeared to hint at personal uncertainty despite the couple being publicly seen as happily married. The filing cites marital difficulties and irreconcilable differences as the reasons for their split.
Interview Reveals Kidman’s Mixed Feelings Amid Change
During the cover interview with Vogue, writer Wendell Steavenson noted that Kidman’s reflections were far from the expected confident self-assurance.
“When I asked about how she felt now, in her 50s, I had expected to hear a nice, trite response about the sagacity of age,”
Steavenson observed. Instead, Kidman was described as “wry, rueful, unsure of herself.” She remarked,
“How many times do you have to be taught that you think you know where your life is going and then it isn’t going in that direction?”
Details of Custody and Separation Arrangements
The divorce filing included a parenting plan naming Kidman’s home as the primary residence for their two teenage daughters. The couple has not made any public statements about their separation since the filing, and the split was only confirmed by Billboard about a week and a half after the Vogue interview became public.
Keith Urban’s Musical Reaction to the Separation
Keith Urban has recently made headlines for altering the lyrics of his song “The Fighter,” which was originally inspired by Kidman. During a performance, he changed the lyric from
“When they’re tryna get to you, baby I’ll be the fighter,”
to
“When they’re tryna get to you, Maggie I’ll be your guitar player,”
giving a shoutout to his guitarist Maggie Baugh.
“When they’re tryna get to you, Maggie I’ll be your guitar player,”
Keith Urban, Musician
Kidman Looks Toward New Creative Horizons Amid Challenges
Despite the uncertainty surrounding her personal life, Kidman expressed excitement about future creative opportunities during the interview. She spoke about her passion for acting and a possible interest in writing, while contemplating life’s bigger questions.

“So much to say and so little time to say it,”
she said, reflecting on themes of existence, truth, and purpose.
“So much to say and so little time to say it,”
Nicole Kidman, Actress
“About death and life and joy and grief and loss and sex and why we’re here and what is truth and is truth even necessary,”
Nicole Kidman, Actress
“What is the future? Do we even care? Are we living in a dream? What is reality? Where are we going? Why do I keep working? Why stop? You’ll have to tie me down, tie me up!”
Nicole Kidman, Actress
Impact and What’s Next
This high-profile divorce marks the end of a nearly two-decade partnership between two prominent figures in entertainment. As Kidman navigates this new chapter, her openness about uncertainty and continued dedication to her craft highlight a period of personal transformation. Fans and observers will likely watch closely as both Kidman and Urban move forward in their individual lives and careers.