Nicole Kidman quietly addressed the challenges in her marriage to Keith Urban in a recent interview with Vogue, conducted in London just weeks prior to her filing for divorce. The Oscar-winning actress, 58, ended her nearly 20-year marriage to the 57-year-old country music star, marking a significant turning point in her life amid the public eye.
Reflections on Life and Personal Change
During the interview, journalist Wendell Steavenson sensed that Kidman and Urban had already separated, though she avoided pressing the topic directly. When asked about her feelings entering her 50s, Kidman delivered a contemplative response that revealed a sense of uncertainty and transformation.
How many times do you have to be taught that you think you know where your life is going and then it isn’t going in that direction?
Nicole Kidman
She described herself as somewhat “wry, rueful, unsure,” offering a glimpse into her emotional state as she navigated unexpected life changes.
Support Systems and Handling Challenges
Kidman shared that her close friendships in Nashville, particularly with her Big Little Lies co-star Reese Witherspoon, have been a vital source of comfort. She referred to these bonds as “ride-or-die friendships,” underscoring their importance during difficult times.
Regarding how she deals with negativity online, Kidman emphasized a firm boundary approach by steering clear of harmful interactions.
Literally walk away from it. Because it will fell you. It will destroy you,
she explained, highlighting the need to protect her mental health amidst public scrutiny.
Her focus on nurturing relationships and maintaining grounding routines appears crucial as she copes with both personal and public upheaval.
Details Surrounding the End of Nicole and Keith’s Marriage
Last month, Kidman officially initiated divorce proceedings, citing irreconcilable differences after years of marital strain. According to reports from Page Six, the couple had been living separately since early summer. They share two daughters, Sunday Rose, 17, and Faith Margaret, 14.
Sometimes relationships just run their course,
a source revealed, also noting that Kidman had made sincere efforts to preserve the marriage and was reluctant to separate. Another insider indicated that Kidman feels “hurt and betrayed” amid circulating rumors about Urban’s involvement with another woman, though the timeline of this alleged relationship remains uncertain.
In court filings reviewed by The Post, Kidman requested primary residential custody of their daughters and sought approval for a Marital Dissolution Agreement alongside a Parenting Plan, indicating her intent to maintain stability for her children.
Post-Separation Public Appearances and Moving Forward
Since her divorce filing, Kidman has gradually stepped back into the spotlight. Her first public event following the split was the amfAR Gala in Dallas on October 4, where she honored Taylor Sheridan, creator of Yellowstone, with the Award of Inspiration. Shortly after, Kidman attended Chanel’s Paris Fashion Week show accompanied by her daughters.
Keith Urban has also resumed performing, notably without wearing his wedding ring and choosing to remove a song believed to be inspired by Kidman from his setlist, underscoring the personal changes both are experiencing.
Kidman’s candid reflections in Vogue, emphasizing that life often takes unexpected directions, now reflect the resilience she is demonstrating as she embraces this new phase of her life, supported by friends and family.
