During a recent appearance on Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen on October 9, Julia Roberts revealed that her husband, Danny Moder, made her former co-star Dominic West feel uneasy while filming Mona Lisa Smile. Moder, who was the film’s cinematographer, was present on set during intimate scenes, leading to an awkward yet humorous situation. Roberts, speaking about the incident, explained how West openly admitted to feeling “uncomfortable” while she and West shared a close moment, highlighting her husband’s presence behind the camera.
Long-lasting Marriage and Family Life with Danny Moder
Roberts married Danny Moder in 2002, two years after they met. The couple welcomed three children together: twins Hazel and Phinnaeus, both 20, and son Henry, 18. Despite Moder not being naturally jealous, his role on the Mona Lisa Smile set sparked a memorable moment of discomfort for West. The pair have now been together for 25 years, building a stable family life that Roberts often praises. She attributes much of her personal happiness to her relationship with Moder, reflecting on the life they have created together along with their children.
Relationship Advice and Parenting Insights from Julia Roberts
Roberts also shared some lighthearted advice about marriage during the Andy Cohen show. She joked about recommending her husband as a partner, but noted that her sister, married longer than her, gave pragmatic tips such as having “two separate phone lines” (a practice now outdated) and “two bathroom sinks” to maintain harmony. Emphasizing fairness in parenting, Roberts mentioned the importance of consistency, refusing to allow her children to get one answer from her and another from Moder.
Describing their parenting approach in a recent 72 Magazine interview, Roberts said they were “some of the stricter parents” and established firm rules that didn’t change. She explained that their children were among the last in their peer groups to receive phones, which conveyed a clear boundary within their household.
Maintaining Stability and Security for Their Children
Roberts believes that setting fixed boundaries contributes to the security her children feel, creating an “unconditional” world of love and safety at home. She emphasized that the family’s approach provides a firm foundation, allowing the children to grow up with a sense of stability. Throughout her interviews, Roberts consistently highlights the importance of unity and clear rules in her family’s dynamic.
Reflecting on Parenthood and Adult Children
During an appearance on The Late Show With Stephen Colbert on October 1, Roberts discussed her experience as a mother of grown children. She spoke warmly about her relationship with her kids, expressing how much she enjoys spending time with them. Roberts acknowledged that while many parents think their children are exceptional, she truly finds joy in the connections they share, including dealing with the “emptiness” that comes as children grow more independent.
Balancing Fame and Family Life
Though usually private about her personal life, Roberts has opened up about balancing her career with family commitments. Her reflections reveal a clear dedication to fostering a close, supportive environment at home, where her relationship with Moder and their parenting philosophy serve as the backbone of their family’s happiness. The actress’s candid accounts contribute to understanding how she manages the pressures of fame while keeping her family grounded and connected.
