Don Cheadle, known for his roles in “The Crash” and “Hotel Rwanda,” offered a rare glimpse into his private romance with his wife, Bridgid Coulter, during the HollyRod Foundation’s 2025 DesignCare Gala on October 4 in Los Angeles. Celebrating over 30 years together, the couple shared moments of admiration amidst the spotlight, highlighting the strength of their enduring bond.
A Lasting Partnership Beyond the Public Eye
Cheadle and Coulter began their relationship in 1992 but kept their marriage a secret until 2021, when they quietly tied the knot during the coronavirus pandemic. The actor praised Coulter, emphasizing her various roles in their life.
“She’s a great mom, a great wife, an amazing entrepreneur and designer,”
Cheadle said.
“She’s just a solid citizen, and it’s been 30-plus years.”
Coulter, who is 57, responded to the compliment with lighthearted humor, saying,
“He’s cute. It’s all about the looks, and he’s very talented, of course!”
Their playful dynamic reflects their long-lasting connection and mutual respect.
Recognition for Humanitarian Efforts and Shared Commitments
At the gala, Don Cheadle and Bridgid Coulter received the Clarence & Jacqueline Avant Humanitarian Award from Holly Robinson Peete and Rodney Peete. This accolade honors individuals whose compassion and advocacy leave a meaningful impact, marking a testament to their dedication both professionally and personally.
Cheadle serves as a Goodwill Ambassador for the United Nations Environment Programme, while Coulter leads initiatives supporting women of color and allies through her work with the Blackboard Collective and Blackbird Alliance. Their shared commitment to social causes resonates deeply beyond their private life.
Keeping Their Love Out of the Public Eye
The couple has been deliberately private about their relationship, choosing to avoid public displays and social media exposure of their personal life. Bridgid Coulter explained the rarity of their public appearances together, adding,
“We don’t really do a lot together in public. This is only because of the cause.”
Their decision reflects a clear boundary between their personal bond and public personas.
Support for HollyRod Foundation’s Mission
The gala honors work done to support families affected by autism and Parkinson’s disease. Holly and Rodney Peete’s son, RJ, was diagnosed with autism at age three and now works for the Los Angeles Dodgers. Holly’s father passed from Parkinson’s in 2002, and her brother currently lives with early-onset Parkinson’s disease.
Don Cheadle expressed admiration for the Peete family’s dedication to these challenges.
“We’ve been friends of their family for a while, and just really supporters of what they do,”
he said.
“What they’re doing for their foundation is so unique and years of great work. I’m glad to be here to support them.”
Bridgid Coulter added,
“Their work for autism and Parkinson’s is really important, and we’ve known Matt [Robinson] forever. Honoring the work they do is something we feel privileged to do here.”
Revealing Marriage After Decades Together
Don Cheadle confirmed his marriage publicly on The Ellen DeGeneres Show in June 2021, surprising friends and fans alike. Wanda Sykes, who was guest hosting the episode, apologized upon learning of Cheadle’s long-standing marriage. To that, Cheadle responded with humor, saying,
“Yeah, I mean, that’s understandable, given that we’ve been together 28 years before we got married. I hold you blameless.”
This moment underscored how discreet the couple has been about their personal life, choosing to focus on family and their passion for humanitarian causes rather than public attention.
The Significance of Their Private Romance and Public Service
Don Cheadle and Bridgid Coulter’s ability to maintain a close and loving relationship for over three decades while dedicating themselves to important social causes highlights a balance rarely seen in celebrity couples. Their recognition by the HollyRod Foundation reflects both their personal integrity and the impact of their collaborative efforts.
As advocates, they continue to inspire support for autism and Parkinson’s disease communities, underscoring how private devotion can accompany passionate public service. Their story may encourage others to value private relationships alongside public achievements, signaling a hopeful future where love and activism coexist.
