Jennifer Lawrence expressed ease while working with Robert Pattinson on the intimate scenes of the upcoming film Die My Love, which was filmed during her pregnancy. Despite the challenging and intense nature of their psychodrama romance, Lawrence said she did not feel the need for an intimacy coordinator to oversee their sex scenes, highlighting the trust and professionalism between the two actors. The movie is scheduled for release on November 7.
Team Building Through Dance and Trust
During a discussion on the Las Culturistas podcast, Lawrence shared that dance lessons served as collaborative exercises on set, which helped them choreograph both fighting and sex scenes. She described these activities as bonding experiences that built trust between her and Pattinson, making the filming of vulnerable scenes more natural. Lawrence commented,
“We did dance lessons together, which was like team building exercises,”
followed by,
“In the end, it ended up being more helpful just for choreography of sex scenes and fighting scenes,”
reflecting the practical side of their preparation.
Intimacy Coordinator Role and On-Set Experience
When asked whether an intimacy coordinator was present during filming, Lawrence was uncertain but reiterated that she felt safe enough with Pattinson not to require one. She explained their interactions were centered on family topics rather than any awkwardness typical with intimate scenes. Lawrence explained,
“We did not have one or maybe we did, but we didn’t really… I felt really safe with him,”
and added,
“He’s not pervy and he’s very in love with [partner] Suki [Waterhouse]. We mostly were talking about our kids and relationships so there wasn’t any weird, like, ‘Does he think I like him?’”
She also remarked on the potential pitfalls male actors sometimes exhibit regarding these scenes but clarified,
“If there was a little bit of that I would probably have an intimacy coordinator. A lot of male actors get offended if you don’t want to f— them, and then the punishment starts. But he was not like that, for the record.”
Confirmation of Intimacy Coordinator Presence and Impact
In a previous interview with Brut Magazine coinciding with the film’s premiere at the Cannes Film Festival, both Lawrence and Pattinson confirmed that an intimacy coordinator was indeed part of the production team. Still, they felt confident enough to shoot many of the scenes without relying heavily on their guidance. Lawrence humorously recalled,
“On our first day of shooting, we were naked, attacking each other like tigers,”
while Pattinson added,
“You think you can’t get more embarrassed and then they’re like, ‘Now do it naked.’”
Pattinson acknowledged the value brought by the coordinator, saying,
“It’s not just to feel secure sometimes,”
and noted that the coordinator also offered useful direction about body positioning to enhance how scenes look on camera:
“I think directors sometimes are a little bit scared to say, like, ‘Your body looks weird in this angle.’ And if you have someone else whose specific job is to say, ‘Just move a little bit in this direction,’ you’re gonna like it more.”
Intimacy Coordinators’ Growing Role in Entertainment
Following the #MeToo movement, intimacy coordinators have become essential in film and theater to ensure actors’ comfort, safety, and advocacy during nude or simulated sex scenes. SAG-AFTRA, the union representing performers, defines this role as
“an advocate, a liaison between actors and production, and a movement coach and/or choreographer in regards to nudity and simulated sex in intimate and other hyper exposed scenes.”
This evolving position supports actors by facilitating communication and creating a professional environment around sensitive content.
Lawrence’s Attitude Toward Nudity and Body Image
Lawrence also shared her relaxed perspective on nudity while filming, particularly because she was pregnant with her second child during production. She described how pregnancy lessened her usual concerns about vanity and dieting, saying,
“I don’t care about nudity. I’m not sensitive about it,”
and added,
“I think being pregnant took a lot of, like, vanity anxiety away. Before No Hard Feelings, I was dieting and not eating carbs and working out. I was pregnant [in Die My Love]. What was I gonna do? Not eat?”
The actress recounted a moment when production presented a close-up shot showing cellulite and asked if she wanted the image digitally altered. She declined, responding simply, “No. That’s an ass.”
About Die My Love and Its Themes
The film stars Jennifer Lawrence and Robert Pattinson as a couple whose marriage collapses under the strain of psychological distress. Described as a dark comedy and psychological thriller, the story delves into emotional turmoil and complex relationships, promising an intense viewing experience. The movie’s November release has generated anticipation for how the actors’ performances explore this raw material.
