In a rare discussion about death, Eddie Murphy revealed his unique stance on funerals during a recent interview with USA TODAY. The iconic comedian explained that although he has financially supported many funerals, including those of close family and friends, he personally avoids attending such services. This perspective underscores Murphy’s complex relationship with grief and traditional mourning rituals.
Supporting Loved Ones While Avoiding Funeral Services
Murphy has taken responsibility for covering funeral and tombstone expenses for notable figures such as his late brother Charlie Murphy, Redd Foxx, Rick James, William Thomas Jr. (famously known as Buckwheat), and Tim Moore, who played Kingfish on “Amos and Andy.” Despite this involvement, he refrains from participating in the ceremonies themselves, emphasizing that funerals are unnecessary events in his eyes.
At 64 years old, Eddie clarified the few exceptions to his usual practice: the funerals he attended were those of his father, Charles Edward Murphy, when he was eight years old, and his stepfather, Vernon Lynch, who was also the best man at Murphy’s 1993 wedding to Nicole Mitchell Murphy.
Why Eddie Murphy Rejects Traditional Funeral Rituals
Murphy described funerals as emotionally overwhelming and something he chooses to avoid bearing. He expressed his feelings plainly, stating that he has no desire to attend any funerals or participate in the emotional turmoil they bring. Reflecting on this, he shared,
I’ve paid for many funerals, but I don’t attend them,
expressing his discomfort with the sorrowful atmosphere of these gatherings.
His views are elaborated in his upcoming Netflix documentary, “Being Eddie,” which explores both his personal history and career. The film features influential contemporaries, including Dave Chappelle, Chris Rock, Jamie Foxx, Pete Davidson, Tracy Morgan, Tracee Ellis Ross, and Jerry Seinfeld, providing a comprehensive look at his life and legacy.
Murphy’s Wishes Regarding His Own Farewell
Looking ahead, Murphy made it clear that he does not want a funeral when he passes away. He emphasized simplicity and detachment, saying,
When I kick out, I’m not having a funeral,
and
I want to be cremated immediately. No service. No memorial. None of that trauma.
He further explained his preference by stating,
I don’t care what they do with them. Just don’t have people standing around with my ashes. I’m not trying to be in an urn while everybody cries.
This outlook reflects his desire to avoid the emotional distress commonly associated with funerary rites.
Memories and Emotional Moments in “Being Eddie”
The documentary also captures moments of reflection, particularly when Murphy speaks about his brother Charlie Murphy, who passed away in 2017 after battling leukemia. Addressing this painful subject, Murphy acknowledged the emotional impact:
When I start talking about my brother, that was emotional. A little flicker.
He contrasts grief with resilience by stating,
Memories pop up, but I don’t wallow,
and adds, I’m right here. This reveals his focus on living fully in the present despite past losses.
Legacy and Focus on Family
“Being Eddie” highlights Murphy’s journey from a young talent on “Saturday Night Live” to a Hollywood powerhouse. The documentary also underscores how much his identity revolves around his creativity and his children. Murphy said,
I’m creative. My children are my legacy,
and stressed, My world revolves around them. Through this lens, the film portrays a man deeply committed to shaping his family’s future rather than dwelling on tradition or sorrow.
The documentary “Being Eddie” is set to premiere on Netflix on Wednesday, November 12, offering viewers an intimate look into Eddie Murphy’s life philosophy as well as his distinguished career.
Eddie Murphy reveals he’s paid countless funerals & tombstones for family, friends & mentors including brother Charlie Murphy, Red Foxx, Rick James… but never ever attends any funeral services himself.
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