Kristen Stewart opened up about the decision to come out publicly during her Saturday Night Live monologue in February 2017, sharing the significance behind the moment. The actress explained the reasoning for her announcement amid a complex personal and cultural backdrop, highlighting the importance of visibility for others who might be struggling with their identity.
The Motivation Behind Kristen Stewart’s Public Coming Out
During her SNL monologue, Kristen Stewart openly stated to then-President Donald Trump that she was “so gay.” She later clarified in an interview with ABC News Live Prime that her decision was not about revealing every detail of her relationships but rather about allowing others who live in hiding to feel seen and supported.
It was less about sharing the details of my relationship,
Kristen said,
and more so acknowledging that there are people that don’t get full access to being alive because they’re hiding.
— Kristen Stewart, Actress
Stewart also confronted the pressures she felt from within the industry and social circles, where it was suggested that her career would benefit if she concealed her romantic life. She rejected this notion, emphasizing that living a partial life to uphold exclusionary systems was unacceptable to her.
I’ve experienced perspectives, I’ve had conversations with people I’ve known, loved and trusted and still do, who thought, ‘Your career would go better if you didn’t go outside holding your girlfriend’s hand.’ And I was like, ‘So you want me to live a partial life? And you want me to uphold, perpetuate and sustain a system that excludes people?’ And I just can’t do that.
— Kristen Stewart, Actress
Finding Strength in Marriage and Collaboration
Kristen Stewart’s commitment to living openly coincides with her recent milestone of marrying Dylan Meyer, whom she credits as a significant partner both personally and professionally. Meyer collaborated closely with Stewart on her directorial debut, “Chronology of Water,” further cementing their shared creative bond.
Stewart described their relationship as a balance of contrasting yet harmonious energies, a dynamic that fuels their partnership and joint projects.
We have very, very different, very cohesive energies,
Stewart shared in an E! News interview.
This might sound totally arrogant, but I think that we’re kind of unstoppable. She’s meditative and she’s very, very macro. I am so micro. It just works.
— Kristen Stewart, Actress
A Longtime Connection That Sparked Love
Though Kristen and Dylan were publicly linked in 2019, Stewart revealed to Howard Stern that they had met six years prior while working on a movie set but didn’t reconnect until a friend’s birthday party years later. That reunion marked the beginning of their deepening relationship.
I was like, ‘Where have you been and how have I not known you?’
she recounted.
The progression of their relationship was swift and heartfelt, with Stewart recalling the candid moment she first confessed her love for Meyer in a casual, imperfect setting that felt genuine and unfiltered.
The first time I told her that I loved her,
Stewart said,
it was like really late and we were in some sh–ty bar and her friends were there or whatever, and they like walked out, and I was just like, ‘Oh man, I’m so f–king in love with you.’ Like, done.
Celebrating Milestones Together
Dylan Meyer showed her affection publicly in April 2021 by honoring Stewart’s 31st birthday with a heartfelt social media post, highlighting their close-knit life with their dog and the joy they share.
Life sure is sweeter with this cute little family,
Meyer wrote.
Happy birthday, kiddo. You knock my socks off.
— Dylan Meyer, Producer
Engagement and Plans for Marriage
Kristen Stewart confirmed her engagement to Dylan Meyer in late 2021 during an appearance on Howard Stern’s show. She described how she approached the proposal process with clear intentions and praised Meyer for delivering exactly what she hoped for.
We’re marrying. We’re totally going to do it,
Stewart said.
I kind of asked her. I wanted to be proposed to, so I think I very distinctly carved out my, what I wanted. And you know, she nailed it. It was really cute. She did very well. And we’re marrying. It’s happening.
For their wedding, the couple envisioned a relaxed ceremony without traditional formalities, focusing on the significance of expressing their love in front of friends rather than on elaborate customs.
I want it to be pretty chill,
Stewart explained.
I don’t want anyone walking anyone down any aisles. We’re just going to like stand and do vows and f–king party after. It’s kind of just a great excuse to get together and say ‘I love you’ in front of all your friends.
Public Appearances as a Couple
The pair were seen attending a party the day before the 2022 Academy Awards, a high-profile event where Stewart was nominated for her portrayal of Princess Diana in the film “Spencer.” They made a notable entrance walking hand in hand on the Oscars red carpet, showcasing their strong and public relationship.
Looking Ahead: Family and Future Plans
In early 2024, Stewart discussed her and Meyer’s exploration of family planning, mentioning proactive steps they have taken to keep their options open, such as egg freezing. This reveals their thoughtful approach to balancing personal goals with evolving life stages.
Done really annoying things like freeze our eggs and stuff,
she said.
So if we want to, we can,
Stewart added, keeping the door open for future possibilities.
Intimate Wedding Celebration in Los Angeles
Kristen Stewart and Dylan Meyer celebrated their marriage in a private ceremony on April 20, held at Casita Del Campo Mexican restaurant in Los Angeles. The event was attended by close friends, including actresses Ashley Benson and Brandon Davis, who were present to witness the couple’s vows and share in the joyful occasion.
