Margot Robbie husband Tom Ackerley has remained largely private despite Margot’s high-profile Hollywood career. For over nine years, the couple has maintained a grounded relationship away from the spotlight, balancing their personal lives with impressive creative ventures in the film industry. From meeting on a movie set to co-founding a successful production company, their story reveals the quiet strength behind their partnership.
The Early Acting Days of Tom Ackerley
Tom Ackerley, originally from Surrey, England, began his career in entertainment as a young extra in the Harry Potter film series. He appeared in background roles during the first three movies, including
“Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban.”
His involvement in the series has a delightful twist, especially since Margot Robbie is known to be a huge fan of the Harry Potter universe. On The Graham Norton Show in 2020, Margot even joked about her husband’s early days on set. She said,
He was an extra when he was a little kid—he was one of the Slytherin extras when Draco pushes some kids out of the way to see Buckbeak in the third book. He pushes my husband out of the way,
Margot revealed.
Tom’s Extensive Career in Film Production
Transitioning from extra to crew member, Tom Ackerley has built a solid reputation in the film industry as both an assistant director and producer. His credits include major titles such as “The Brothers Grimsby,” “Promising Young Woman,” and the 2015 adaptation of “Macbeth.” Before ascending to higher responsibilities, he worked on acclaimed projects like “Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy,” “Rush,” and “War Horse.” His hands-on experience and growing influence highlight his significance behind the scenes.
Where Their Paths Crossed: Meeting on Set
Margot Robbie and Tom first crossed paths during the filming of “Suite Française” in 2014, shortly after Margot’s breakout role opposite Leonardo DiCaprio in “The Wolf of Wall Street.” At that time, Tom served as the third assistant director for the movie. Their connection grew quickly during production, which fostered a sense of camaraderie among the cast and crew. Margot shared with The Guardian that the group, including Tom, decided to move in together out of convenience and friendship:
We were like, ‘Wouldn’t it be funny if we all lived together?’ Someone said, ‘But you don’t live in London,’ and I said, ‘I don’t live anywhere. I’ll move.’ Three days later, we signed a lease in Clapham,
she said. Living with several others, Tom and Margot’s friendship deepened into a romantic relationship, culminating in their marriage in December 2016.
Tom’s Role as Margot’s Anchor
Despite Margot’s confident on-screen personas, she has been open about the anxieties she experiences with her work, especially when starting new projects. In an August 2021 Mirror interview, Margot described how she relies on Tom’s support during these vulnerable moments, confessing,
Even though Harley is a character I have played before, I still got scared before shooting because I’m always nervous to start any job. I have this complete crisis of faith and think, ‘Oh my gosh, I’m not even good at acting and I can’t do this.’ Every time I do a movie, I turn to my husband and I’m like, ‘I don’t think I can do this.’ He says something like, ‘You do this every time. You’ll be fine.’
This bond helps Margot maintain her composure and confidence amid the pressures of her career.
Creating a Business Partnership Beyond Marriage
Apart from their personal life, Margot Robbie and Tom Ackerley have been professional partners since 2014 when they co-founded LuckyChap Entertainment. Joined by friends Josey McNamara and Sophia Kerr, the production company grew from a casual idea hatched after the London premiere of “The Wolf of Wall Street.” According to Variety, the group was inspired to start the company after a night out drinking together. Margot praised the dynamic with Tom and their friends in The Guardian, saying,
We started our production company with our best friends and it continues to be a wonderful group dynamic. We all really work well together. I feel very lucky,
highlighting the blend of camaraderie and creative collaboration that fuels their projects. Their company has since produced several acclaimed films, including “Promising Young Woman,” “Barbie,” “Saltburn,” and more recently, “Wuthering Heights.”
The Unconventional Honeymoon Choice
Rather than taking a traditional honeymoon, the couple prioritized their careers right after their December 2016 wedding. Margot shared with Extra in 2017 that instead of relaxing on a beach, they chose to work on the film “I, Tonya.” She described the experience:
We did this film instead of our honeymoon. There were times we were sitting in a car parked in Atlanta, freezing cold, being like, ‘We should be on a beach right now. We should be on a honeymoon. What are we doing?!’ Following our dream,
she said. Eventually, after completing the movie, the couple managed to enjoy a getaway in Tahiti. Margot fondly recalled,
We did it after we finished shooting. It was great,
she noted.
Managing a Long-Distance Relationship Early On
Before establishing their life together in London, Margot and Tom navigated the complexities of a long-distance relationship while Margot traveled for filming and Tom remained in England. Margot emphasized the importance of maintaining regular contact during this period in a 2016 interview, saying,
The most helpful thing I’ve learned from other couples in this industry is that you don’t go more than three weeks without seeing each other,
followed by,
Being in a long-distance relationship can be really hard when you don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel. It can mess with your head, so the three-week rule is key.
This approach helped preserve their connection despite demanding schedules. Their first public appearance together was captured during a New York Rangers hockey game in February 2015, showing their ability to balance work and leisure.
Margot’s Early Feelings in Their Relationship
The pair’s relationship unfolded quietly, with Margot keeping her feelings guarded for years before fully embracing their romance. She revealed in a May 2016 Vogue interview that she initially resisted the idea of dating, stating,
I was the ultimate single gal. The idea of relationships made me want to vomit. And then this crept up on me. We were friends for so long. I was always in love with him, but I thought, ‘Oh, he would never love me back. Don’t make it weird, Margot. Don’t be stupid and tell him that you like him.’
When the relationship finally began, she described the feeling with warmth,
And then it happened and I was like, ‘Of course we’re together. This makes so much sense, the way nothing has ever made sense before.’
Welcoming Their First Child in 2024
In October 2024, Margot Robbie and Tom Ackerley expanded their family by welcoming their first child. They have chosen to keep their baby’s name and any photos private, maintaining their preference for discretion in personal matters. The couple’s decision to shield their family life from public view reflects their commitment to preserving a sense of normalcy away from Hollywood’s glare.
