Inga Ibsdotter Lilleaas’s journey to Hollywood defies any simple path, starting from a small village in Norway and winding through multiple countries and experiences before culminating in a first Oscar nomination. Now 36, Lilleaas received her first Academy Award nomination for her role as Agnes in Joachim Trier’s film Sentimental Value. The movie explores the complex relationship between two sisters and their estranged father, played by Stellan Skarsgård, with themes of memory, trauma, and filmmaking deeply embedded in its storytelling. This nomination places Lilleaas among several lead actors recognized alongside Trier for his direction, marking a significant milestone in her career during the 2024 awards season, a focal point for Sebastian Stan as he reflects on her rise.
Her road to this achievement involved detours including a rejection from Norway’s top acting school, a year-long exchange program in Brazil where she learned Portuguese without any prior knowledge of the language, and studies at New York’s prestigious Lee Strasberg Theatre and Film Institute. Upon returning to Norway, she completed her education at another acting school further north. Throughout her path, her family’s theater production background influenced her understanding of the performing arts from a production perspective before she embraced acting fully.

Conversations Between Peers: Stan and Lilleaas Discuss the Journey
Sebastian Stan, known for his own success in the U.S., engaged Lilleaas in a candid discussion as she prepared for the final stages of the awards circuit. He expressed admiration for her ability to balance motherhood with the demanding months of promotion and shooting alongside Renate Reinsve, her co-star:
“Sometimes it feels like it actually.” –Inga Ibsdotter Lilleaas
The dialogue revealed how Lilleaas’s early ambitions led her to unexpected places, such as Brazil, despite initially wanting to go to America during her exchange program. She shared how she was immersed in academic studies there, struggling with language and culture but eventually mastering Portuguese. Her involvement with acting grew from observing her parents’ theater production company, which rented equipment and supported local theater groups, grounding her early experiences more in production than performance.
Stan noted shared interests in renowned acting schools, recalling his attempts to attend Lee Strasberg and NYU, to which Lilleaas responded by detailing her own attempts and eventual acceptance into acting institutions in Norway after a brief psychology study. She described her preference for theater’s intimacy and authenticity, which later translated into film roles that felt genuine rather than exaggerated, aligning well with her acting style in Sentimental Value.
Working with Joachim Trier: Preparation and Artistic Collaboration
Lilleaas recounted how her admiration for director Joachim Trier began during her university years, recalling how his films struck her with their naturalistic performances and complex, unspoken emotions. When asked about her involvement in the latest project, she detailed a multi-step audition process that included conversations not solely about the script but broader discussions about life and art. This depth of interaction during auditions was unusual and enriching, providing her with meaningful insights regardless of the final casting outcome.
She related parts of the film’s dynamics back to her personal experience, particularly the portrayal of a passionate but absent parent and complicated sibling relationships that resonate with her position in her own family as a middle child. The multi-layered script also showcased characters grappling with identity and artistry, including the American actress figure, adding to the film’s rich texture.
On the creative process during filming, Lilleaas explained the collaborative atmosphere on set, describing Trier’s practice of filming rehearsals and encouraging improvisation alongside precisely rehearsed scenes. She appreciated how these “jazz takes” allowed room for experimentation, helping her confront personal fears of making mistakes in her acting craft.
Influence of Experienced Co-stars and Behind-the-Scenes Chemistry
Working with Stellan Skarsgård, a veteran actor in European cinema, was an intriguing challenge for Lilleaas, who explored the complex father-daughter energy within the story while adapting to his grounded, modest presence on set. She observed that his approach left space for other actors to contribute, helping build authentic chemistry essential to the film’s emotional core.
Recognition and Reflections Amid the Awards Season
The recognition for Sentimental Value by audiences, critics, and peers has been exhilarating and overwhelming. Lilleaas fondly recalled the emotional moment at a New York luncheon where actress Susan Sarandon praised the film and its cast, a memory that brought her to tears along with others present. Another highlight was meeting director Paul Thomas Anderson, who called her
“the best special effect of the year,”
a compliment that underscored the unexpected and surreal nature of her rapid ascent.
“the best special effect of the year.” –Paul Thomas Anderson
Lilleaas expressed mixed feelings about this whirlwind of acclaim, admitting that despite professional excitement, she remains grounded by the unpredictability of acting work and her life commitments in Norway. The possibility of further work in the United States, especially with major filmmakers, remains appealing yet daunting given her strong ties to home and family.
Balancing Fame, Parenthood, and Future Challenges
Discussing how her four-and-a-half-year-old son might understand her Oscar nomination and attendant publicity, Lilleaas candidly shared the difficulty of explaining the significance of awards to a child. She likened the whole process to a competition that doesn’t quite feel like one, reflecting an inner restlessness about the industry’s demands. Stan lightened the mood by joking that perhaps showing her son The Hunger Games might better explain what she’s endured:
“This is what your mom had to do.” –Sebastian Stan
They both agreed the intensity of awards season and the industry can feel overwhelming and surreal, calling it “not normal,” but also acknowledging the lasting impact and importance of such work. Stan became visibly emotional reflecting on the film’s depth and universal themes about parental relationships, emphasizing that the experience shared by Lilleaas and her castmates is something they will carry forward regardless of the outcome.
Looking Ahead: Artistic Curiosity and Uncertain Horizons
Lilleaas admitted to feeling the pressure to continuously prove herself but sees acting as a way to explore human nature through others and herself. While she is open to a range of future projects, including those in English-language cinema and even joking about blockbuster franchises like Jurassic Park or Marvel films, she remains cautious and focused on living intentionally in the present.
Her grounded outlook and intense curiosity, combined with the recognition garnered in the 2024 awards season, suggest a promising but carefully navigated path forward. Sebastian Stan’s interview with Inga Ibsdotter Lilleaas captures a moment of raw ambition, achievement, and the emotional complexity behind the pursuit of art and acknowledgment on a global stage.
