Hailee Steinfeld and Josh Allen have opened up about how they nurture their strong relationship despite the challenges posed by their busy lives. As the couple prepares to welcome their first child, the actress shared insights into their loving bond and how she is adapting to pregnancy while maintaining her fitness.
How Hailee and Josh Keep Their Relationship Strong Amid Busy Schedules
In a recent Beau Society newsletter Q&A, Hailee Steinfeld described the key to their thriving romance, emphasizing the importance of genuine presence. She explained,
I don’t want it to seem cliché, but we focus on being truly present with each other,
Hailee, 29, said.
More specifically, we’re big on weekly date nights, and going no phones for an hour at the end of the day.
This approach helps the couple stay connected despite their fundamentally different routines as an actress and an NFL quarterback.
The pair, who married in May last year, also shared glimpses of their journey as they announced the pregnancy of their first child in December. Hailee discussed changes to her workout habits as her pregnancy progresses, expressing a focus on listening to her body.
At this point, they’re a little slower,
she said of her fitness sessions.
I’m prioritizing listening to my body, which has been a consistent thing I’ve always done when it comes to working out, regardless of my physical state. Recently, I’ve been doing a lot of walking. Sometimes I set out for 30 minutes, and it ends up being 15, or less than that.
She also pointed out the importance of movement, even if slower paced.
I’m taking it slow, but movement is key,
Hailee added.
The other day, I felt like I should be going up and down the stairs more, so I started doing some housework that had me going up and down the stairs, and afterwards I was like, ‘Okay, I’m good with stairs for a while!’
Josh Allen Balances Fatherhood with Football Career
Josh Allen, also 29, expressed excitement about stepping into fatherhood while managing his football training during the offseason. Speaking at a January 29 Bills press conference, he shared his perspective on preparing for this new chapter.
I’ve known this from well in advance,
he said.
I’ve got siblings that have kids, and I’ve got a lot of friends who have kids. I don’t know if you can plan too far in advance.
The NFL star conveyed how much becoming a dad means to him.
I’m very much looking forward to that with my wife of becoming a dad,
he stated.
It’s something that I will take with great pride, and we’re going to have to figure out things on the go just like anything else.
He added,
This is the most important thing I’ll ever be in my life, is being a dad,
underscoring the significance of fatherhood alongside his athletic career.
I love being a football player, and I love being a quarterback for the Buffalo Bills, but I’m looking forward to this one.
The Timeline of Hailee and Josh’s Relationship Milestones
Their romance first sparked public interest in May 2023 after Josh Allen’s split from longtime girlfriend Brittany Williams, when the quarterback was spotted dining in New York City with Hailee Steinfeld. Two months later, the couple confirmed their relationship through a display of affection during a vacation in Mexico.
Nearly a year since those initial rumors, the pair made a rare joint social media appearance in March 2024 while celebrating Josh’s sister Nicala Madden’s baby gender reveal on TikTok, showcasing their closeness with family.
That same month saw them on a romantic outing during Paris Fashion Week, dressed in matching khaki outfits, further capturing attention for their stylish and affectionate public moments.
In July 2024, Josh made their relationship Instagram official with a photo featuring the couple along with a shot of the Eiffel Tower, signaling their special connection in the City of Love.
Included in this post was a heartwarming moment of Hailee with Josh’s family, illustrating her growing role within their personal circle.
Public Acknowledgment of Their Love and Commitment
By August 2024, the couple’s relationship had become a topic on sports media, with reporter Kay Adams nicknaming Josh “Mr. Hard Launch” during her Up & Adams show, as he playfully admitted,
we love love
when asked about his and Hailee’s relationship.
On November 29, 2024, Hailee and Josh revealed their engagement via Instagram. The post included a photo of Josh kneeling while Hailee leaned in for a kiss, captioned with the date 11-22-24, commemorating their major milestone together.
Joint Red Carpet Moments and Their Wedding Celebration
A few months after their engagement, the couple made their red carpet debut at the NFL Honors, where Josh received the MVP award. During his acceptance speech, he gave Hailee a heartfelt tribute, saying,
You’ve been my rock and my best friend,
and
I would not be standing on this stage if it weren’t for you.
In May 2025, the couple officially married during a beautiful ceremony in California. Hailee wore a strapless gown paired with elbow-length gloves, marking the joyous occasion shared by family and friends.
Expecting Their First Child and Looking Toward the Future
In December 2025, Hailee revealed their pregnancy news with a snowy maternity photo shoot featured on her Beau Society Substack, delighting fans with the announcement that their family is growing.
The impending arrival of their baby adds a new, hopeful dimension to their relationship, blending personal happiness with their public lives. With both establishing supportive routines and balancing careers, the couple is preparing for parenthood with determination and close teamwork, signaling an exciting new chapter ahead.
"This is the most important thing I'll ever be in my life, being a dad."
I asked Josh Allen about his plans for this offseason.#BillsMafia @BuffaloPlus pic.twitter.com/4jVdwp5tf5
— Dan Fetes (@danfetes) January 29, 2026
